Parents do their best to protect their children, keep them safe at home and teach them how to be safe in the world.  But accidents do happen.  If your child is injured, you have the important job of getting them medical care and helping them cope with related emotional problems.  You know your children best and are in the best position to see how well they are coping and when they might need extra care.

When your child is confronted with an accident injury that requires immediate medical care, you may find yourself in the Emergency Room of your local hospital.  To get quality care, you will need to be work with the medical team and be supportive of your child.

The ER can be a stressful frightening place for both injured children and their parents. You may be extremely worried and filled with questions, so good communication with the medical team is essential for your peace of mind and the best possible treatment for your child.

Here are some tips for a successful ER visit:

1. Ask questions. Make sure you understand the answer. If you are not sure, let the medical team know and ask again.
2. Stay with your child as much as possible. Ask permission to be with your child during medical tests and procedures.  You are the best person to help your child get through the experience. Be calm and reassuring.
3. Make sure the medical team knows about your child’s pre-existing medical conditions, including any special needs, fears, or allergies.
4. Be your child’s advocate. Stay involved in your child’s care and decisions about treatment.  Make sure the team knows everything they need to about the accident, and always tell them if your child is in pain or needs their attention.  Explain to your child what is happening; be honest and reassuring.
5. Help your child communicate about his or her needs. For example, if your child is in pain, let the medical team know.  Allow your child to express fears or feelings and to talk directly with the team. As much as possible, let your child answer, but don’t force him or her to talk. Be there to listen when your child is ready.
6. Take care of yourself. You need to be healthy if you are going to be strong for your child.  Get the support you need from family and friends, eat well, and get some sleep.

In the days following the injury, many children will feel upset, stressed, or worried.  This is when they will need a little extra support from family and friends.